Saturday, 21 February 2009

• Turns out he was definately STALKER!

   Ok so I posted blog titled Stalker or One of The Nice Guys. It turns out the guy was definately stalker. I tryed talking to the guy who I will refer to as S and telling him that I felt uncomfortable with the gifts and stuff but it was like I wasn't even saying anything. I didn't know what to do so I avoided S as much as I possibly could. He came into my job last week and was there everyday. I would walk all the way around the resturant to avoid him....and let me tell you the resturant is not that big. He followed me to my car after work one night and I told him he could not do that but he didn't listen then our Security Guard wrote a report on me saying I was being to friendly with the customers and sent it to corporate office....How can I be to Friendly I mean I am a waitress for crying out loud...What does he expect me to be a downright B...ch. I went to my Assistant manager who is also a friend and she tried talking to S but that didn't work either he just got even more mad and insisted he wasn't doing anything wrong. He told her he was untraditionally in love with me......interpretation: He is sycho! She tried to talk to him again the next day and that also didn't work so the general manager go involved and told him not to come back in. S insisted to her also that he wasn't doing anything wrong and that I wanted to be with him and that I would be with him. She said it was like she wasn't even talking. He just kept going on like him and I were in this wonderful relationship and he was telling one of his friends about it.....She finally just told him to leave and not come back or the police would be called but of course he retaliated and said he was going to go to corporate. My wonderful managers have called the company he works for, the hotel he is staying at and informed the police and I also wrote a statement about when it started and everything he has given me. Someone at my job was giving him information about me but hopefully that has been stopped. I now have to park as close to the building as I can and someone walks me into work and to my car after work because of everything that has happened this week plus he told one of my coworkers that I was the only woman he would die for and kill for and not just kill someone else for me but kill to be with me. I am going down Monday to file an official police report and file a VPO but it is still scary....It is to the point now that he kept calling the phone he sent to me (which I never took out of the box....It is with everything else in a big box to take to my job for my manager to give back to him or I will take it to the police) but he called and texted it the other night so much I took the battery out of the phone. I didn't even know the phone was on. I am now looking for another place to live just to be on the safe side and I will continue to have someone walk me to my car after work. I love my job and the people there really care about me and all their employees I don't want to have to give that up because of this sycho....but I also don't want to have to move either but I have four kids and their insn't someone at my house like there is at work. I have to protect my children first and formost and if there is any possibility he has found out where I live than I think it is best to just move.

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